When people think of foster care, they often picture little kids waiting for homes. But there’s another side of the story that rarely gets told, what happens when those kids grow up and the system lets go.
Every year in the United States, more than 20,000 young adults “age out” of foster care when they turn 18, meaning they’re no longer eligible for state support. For many of them, there’s no safety net, no family to call, and no one to guide them through the challenges of adulthood.
The statistics are heartbreaking:
Within 18 months of aging out, 40–50% experience homelessness. Only half graduate from high school. Fewer than 3% earn a college degree by age 26. Many face unemployment, financial instability, and higher risks of trauma and mental health struggles.
These numbers don’t reflect a lack of potential, they reflect a lack of consistent support.
As a foster parent, I’ve seen how important stability and advocacy are during the teenage years. By the time many youth reach 18, they’ve already learned to rely on themselves. That independence can be empowering, but it can also be isolating. The truth is, no one should have to face adulthood completely alone.
That’s why Extended Foster Care (EFC) programs are so vital. They give young adults the option to remain in care until age 21 while finishing school, finding stable housing, and learning life skills. Research shows that staying connected through EFC reduces homelessness by over 30% and improves long-term success rates dramatically.
But programs alone aren’t enough, people make the difference. Mentors, advocates, foster families, and community members all play a role in showing these young adults that their future matters. Sometimes, that looks like helping them apply for college or a job. Sometimes, it’s simply being the person who answers the phone when they need advice or encouragement.
If you’ve ever wondered how you could help but fostering full-time doesn’t fit your season of life, this is your opportunity. Volunteer, mentor, donate, or simply spread awareness. Every effort, big or small, can change the path of a young person who’s just stepping into adulthood.
Because every child deserves a safe landing, not just a strong start. 💛
With love,
Juliet
The Anker Homestead 